{"id":3650,"date":"2025-10-23T06:21:51","date_gmt":"2025-10-23T04:21:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aleksandramarszal.pl\/?p=3650"},"modified":"2025-10-23T18:04:46","modified_gmt":"2025-10-23T16:04:46","slug":"jak-byc-soba","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aleksandramarszal.pl\/en\/jak-byc-soba\/","title":{"rendered":"Jak by\u0107 sob\u0105"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"3650\" class=\"elementor elementor-3650\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b29b221 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"b29b221\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-18c8d1b elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"18c8d1b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Bycie sob\u0105 jako podr\u00f3\u017c<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b99fd72 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b99fd72\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p data-start=\"179\" data-end=\"216\">Bycie sob\u0105 to podr\u00f3\u017c.<br data-start=\"395\" data-end=\"398\" \/>Co to dok\u0142adnie oznacza? \u017be w momencie, kiedy zaczynamy zadawa\u0107 sobie pytanie: <em data-start=\"477\" data-end=\"563\">Co to znaczy by\u0107 sob\u0105? Za czym dok\u0142adnie t\u0119skni\u0119, gdy m\u00f3wi\u0119, \u017ce chcia\u0142abym by\u0107 sob\u0105?<\/em> \u2013 otwieraj\u0105 si\u0119 drzwi. Drzwi, kt\u00f3re zapraszaj\u0105 nas do podr\u00f3\u017cy poza to, co ju\u017c o sobie wiemy. Do zmiany i do eksplorowania nowych obszar\u00f3w siebie.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-48244ce elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"48244ce\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Nie chodzi o porzucenie dotychczasowego \u017cycia, lecz o zmian\u0119 do\u015bwiadczenia<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e95982f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e95982f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p data-start=\"771\" data-end=\"1087\">Okazuje si\u0119 cz\u0119sto, \u017ce ta podr\u00f3\u017c niekoniecznie polega na porzuceniu starego \u017cycia.<br data-start=\"868\" data-end=\"871\" \/>Bardzo cz\u0119sto zaczyna si\u0119 od osadzenia w obecnej roli, w \u017cyciu, jakie wybierali\u015bmy dotychczas \u2013 oraz stopniowego odkrywania, dlaczego w\u0142a\u015bnie takie jest i by\u0142o dla nas wa\u017cne.<\/p>\n<p>W nast\u0119pnym kroku mo\u017cna przej\u015b\u0107 do eksploracji tego, czego nam w nim brakuje, jakiego rodzaju do\u015bwiadczenia, i jak zrobi\u0107 na nie wi\u0119cej miejsca.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1089\" data-end=\"1349\">Lecz tutaj musz\u0119 powiedzie\u0107, \u017ce powiedzenie, \u017ce chodzi o \u201erobienie czego\u015b\u201d, to du\u017ce uproszczenie.<br \/><br data-start=\"1161\" data-end=\"1164\" \/>Gdy rozmawiam ze swoimi klientami, to okazuje si\u0119, \u017ce t\u0119skni\u0105 za konkretnym do\u015bwiadczeniem. Potrzebuj\u0105 si\u0119 g\u0142\u0119biej z nim po\u0142\u0105czy\u0107, poczu\u0107 je wyra\u017aniej w ciele. Czasem jest to poczucie wolno\u015bci, czasem si\u0142a, a czasem sprawczo\u015b\u0107. Zwr\u00f3cenie uwagi na to, jakiego do\u015bwiadczenia potrzebujemy, powoduje, \u017ce mo\u017ce si\u0119 zacz\u0105\u0107 rozwija\u0107 i kie\u0142kowa\u0107\u00a0 niczym ro\u015blina, kt\u00f3r\u0105 podlewamy.<br \/>To ostatecznie mo\u017ce doprowadzi\u0107 do r\u00f3\u017cnych zmian. Ale takich kt\u00f3re wynikaj\u0105 z naszej g\u0142\u0119bi.<br \/><br \/><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-69f8749 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"69f8749\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Kiedy brakuje przestrzeni na siebie<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0706e40 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"0706e40\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p data-start=\"1395\" data-end=\"1592\">Wyobra\u017amy sobie zapracowan\u0105 matk\u0119 \u2013 by\u0107 mo\u017ce tak\u0105, kt\u00f3ra \u0142\u0105czy \u017cycie zawodowe z rodzin\u0105.<br data-start=\"1483\" data-end=\"1486\" \/>Cierpi na brak czasu i mog\u0142aby przyj\u015b\u0107 na terapi\u0119 lub na coaching z problemem: <em data-start=\"1565\" data-end=\"1591\">Nie mam czasu dla siebie<\/em>. Albo mo\u017ce wyobra\u017amy sobie kogo\u015b, kto w pracy wci\u0105\u017c zaciska z\u0119by i mimo niezadowolenia nie wyra\u017ca swojego sprzeciwu wobec wielu rzeczy. W imi\u0119 dobrej atmosfery.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1594\" data-end=\"1971\">Obie osoby mog\u0105 t\u0119skni\u0107 za byciem bardziej sob\u0105. B\u0119dzie to oznacza\u0142o zupe\u0142nie inne rzeczy. Jedna by\u0107 mo\u017ce potrzebuje wyj\u015b\u0107 z trybu zadaniowego i odkry\u0107 na nowo \u015bmiech, swobod\u0119 i zabaw\u0119. Ta druga by\u0107 mo\u017ce potrzebuje przyjrze\u0107 si\u0119 swojej frustracji, odkry\u0107, \u017ce jest w niej mn\u00f3stwo si\u0142y i zastanowi\u0107 si\u0119 jak j\u0105 \u015bwiadomie wykorzysta\u0107.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-441dae3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"441dae3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Co to znaczy \u201eby\u0107 bardziej sob\u0105\u201d?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-17bac98 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"17bac98\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p data-start=\"2015\" data-end=\"2120\">W takim razie mo\u017cna zapyta\u0107: <em data-start=\"2033\" data-end=\"2120\">No dobrze, to co to znaczy, \u017ce chcesz by\u0107 bardziej sob\u0105? Czego brakuje w Twoim \u017cyciu?<\/em><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2015\" data-end=\"2120\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2122\" data-end=\"2235\">I tutaj czasem zaczynaj\u0105 si\u0119 schody, bo odpowiedzenie na to pytanie okazuje si\u0119 trudniejsze, ni\u017c by si\u0119 wydawa\u0142o. A to wynika z tego, \u017ce cz\u0119sto szukamy racjonalnej odpowiedzi.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2122\" data-end=\"2235\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2237\" data-end=\"2371\">Wystarczy jednak z\u0142apa\u0107 pierwszy flirt, to co podpowiada nami intuicja, bo cz\u0119sto nie chodzi o t\u0105 konkretn\u0105 czynno\u015b\u0107, lecz o wspomniane ju\u017c wcze\u015bniej do\u015bwiadczenie, kt\u00f3re kryje si\u0119 za tym flirtem.<br \/><br \/>Za\u0142\u00f3\u017cmy, \u017ce kto\u015b powie:<br data-start=\"2264\" data-end=\"2267\" \/><em data-start=\"2267\" data-end=\"2371\">Chcia\u0142abym mie\u0107 czas poczyta\u0107 ksi\u0105\u017ck\u0119. Usi\u0105\u015b\u0107 z kubkiem herbaty, odci\u0105\u0107 si\u0119 od wszystkiego.<\/em><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2237\" data-end=\"2371\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2373\" data-end=\"2669\">Zadanie wydaje si\u0119 by\u0107 stosunkowo proste.<br data-start=\"2414\" data-end=\"2417\" \/><em data-start=\"2417\" data-end=\"2558\">No dobrze, to kiedy mog\u0142aby\u015b to realnie zrobi\u0107? Z czego potrzebujesz zrezygnowa\u0107? Od jakiej ksi\u0105\u017cki zaczniesz? <\/em>&#8211; m\u00f3g\u0142by zapyta\u0107 wprawiony coach.<br data-start=\"2558\" data-end=\"2561\" \/>Cz\u0119sto odpowied\u017a na te pytania nie wystarcza i za tydzie\u0144 i nawet za miesi\u0105c oka\u017ce si\u0119, \u017ce nic si\u0119 nie zmieni\u0142o w \u017cyciu danej osoby. Wr\u00f3ci i powie: <em data-start=\"2644\" data-end=\"2669\">Znowu mi si\u0119 nie uda\u0142o.<\/em><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2373\" data-end=\"2669\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2671\" data-end=\"2921\">Dlaczego?<br data-start=\"2680\" data-end=\"2683\" \/>Bo nie chodzi tylko o czytanie ksi\u0105\u017cki. O fizyczne wykonanie zadania \u2013 lecz o <strong data-start=\"2761\" data-end=\"2778\">do\u015bwiadczenie<\/strong>, kt\u00f3re si\u0119 za tym kryje.<br data-start=\"2803\" data-end=\"2806\" \/>O to, <strong data-start=\"2812\" data-end=\"2831\">kim si\u0119 stajesz<\/strong>, gdy czytasz. <strong data-start=\"2846\" data-end=\"2866\">Jaka si\u0119 stajesz<\/strong>. Co jest w tym najprzyjemniejsze i jak Ci\u0119 to zmienia.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e56dd50 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"e56dd50\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">T\u0119sknota za jako\u015bci\u0105<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4998fd7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4998fd7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p data-start=\"2958\" data-end=\"3144\">To g\u0142\u0119boka t\u0119sknota jest za do\u015bwiadczeniem pewnego stanu, pewnej jako\u015bci bycia sprawia, \u017ce chcemy by\u0107 bardziej sob\u0105.<br data-start=\"3034\" data-end=\"3037\" \/>Dotarcie do esencji, do sedna tego do\u015bwiadczenia mo\u017ce by\u0107 transformuj\u0105cym i znacz\u0105cym momentem dla ka\u017cdej osoby.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2958\" data-end=\"3144\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3146\" data-end=\"3296\">To nie mog\u0105 by\u0107 czysto intelektualne rozwa\u017cania.<br data-start=\"3191\" data-end=\"3194\" \/>Gdy szukamy siebie, potrzebujemy <strong data-start=\"3227\" data-end=\"3250\">do\u015bwiadcza\u0107 w ciele<\/strong> i <strong data-start=\"3253\" data-end=\"3261\">czu\u0107. <\/strong>Pozwoli\u0107 si\u0119 poprowadzi\u0107 przez rodz\u0105c\u0105 si\u0119 w nas energi\u0119, gdy cho\u0107 na chwil\u0119 poczujemy jak to jest czyta\u0107 ksi\u0105\u017ck\u0119, by\u0107 odci\u0119tym od reszty \u015bwiata. Gdzie jest wtedy nasza uwaga? Co si\u0119 zmienia w moim ciele? Co staje si\u0119 mo\u017cliwe?<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8805cb4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"8805cb4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Skarby w codzienno\u015bci<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6f73440 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6f73440\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p data-start=\"3328\" data-end=\"3485\">Co ciekawsze \u2013 okazuje si\u0119, \u017ce w tej eksploracji nie mo\u017cemy pomin\u0105\u0107 tego, co zajmuje nas na co dzie\u0144.<br data-start=\"3429\" data-end=\"3432\" \/>Czyli tego, czemu de facto po\u015bwi\u0119camy tak du\u017co czasu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3487\" data-end=\"3629\">Tutaj te\u017c ukryte s\u0105 skarby.<br data-start=\"3514\" data-end=\"3517\" \/>Tutaj te\u017c s\u0105 elementy nas, kt\u00f3re z jakiego\u015b powodu s\u0105 istotne \u2013 i dajemy im tak du\u017co przestrzeni w naszym \u017cyciu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3631\" data-end=\"3846\">Zapracowana i bardzo zaj\u0119ta osoba, czuj\u0105ca si\u0119 ofiar\u0105 swojego kalendarza, to cz\u0119sto bardzo silna i sprawcza osoba, kt\u00f3ra niejednokrotnie potrzebuje odkry\u0107 swoj\u0105 <strong data-start=\"3792\" data-end=\"3808\">moc osobist\u0105<\/strong> i si\u0142\u0119 zwi\u0105zan\u0105 z dotychczasow\u0105 rol\u0105.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3631\" data-end=\"3846\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"3848\" data-end=\"4036\">\n<li data-start=\"3848\" data-end=\"3895\">\n<p data-start=\"3850\" data-end=\"3895\"><strong data-start=\"3850\" data-end=\"3865\">Jaka jeste\u015b<\/strong>, gdy zajmujesz si\u0119 rodzin\u0105?<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"3896\" data-end=\"3947\">\n<p data-start=\"3898\" data-end=\"3947\"><strong data-start=\"3898\" data-end=\"3945\">Gdy zarz\u0105dzasz tysi\u0105cami codziennych zada\u0144?<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"3948\" data-end=\"3985\">\n<p data-start=\"3950\" data-end=\"3985\"><strong data-start=\"3950\" data-end=\"3983\">Do czego w sobie masz dost\u0119p?<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"3986\" data-end=\"4036\">\n<p data-start=\"3988\" data-end=\"4036\"><strong data-start=\"3988\" data-end=\"4036\">W jaki spos\u00f3b to jest wa\u017cne? Co jest sednem?<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-start=\"4038\" data-end=\"4281\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4038\" data-end=\"4281\">Cz\u0119sto okazuje si\u0119, \u017ce to kolejna ods\u0142ona bycia sob\u0105.<br data-start=\"4091\" data-end=\"4094\" \/>\u017be wcale tak bardzo nie chcemy si\u0119 tego pozbywa\u0107 \u2013 szczeg\u00f3lnie, gdy <strong data-start=\"4162\" data-end=\"4190\">odczarujemy bycie ofiar\u0105<\/strong> i odkryjemy <strong data-start=\"4203\" data-end=\"4223\">si\u0142\u0119 i potencja\u0142<\/strong> tkwi\u0105cy w pe\u0142nym obj\u0119ciu tego elementu naszej to\u017csamo\u015bci.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-19c38fe elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"19c38fe\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Pe\u0142nia z paradoks\u00f3w<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-46d34f9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"46d34f9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p data-start=\"4311\" data-end=\"4515\">Okazuje si\u0119, \u017ce zar\u00f3wno to, kim jeste\u015bmy obecnie i to, czego czasem mamy do\u015b\u0107, jak i to, za czym t\u0119sknimy \u2013 to <strong data-start=\"4424\" data-end=\"4448\">dwie r\u00f3\u017cne barwy nas<\/strong>.<br data-start=\"4449\" data-end=\"4452\" \/>Ca\u0142a sztuka polega na <strong data-start=\"4474\" data-end=\"4514\">namalowaniu obrazu z u\u017cyciem ich obu<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4311\" data-end=\"4515\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4517\" data-end=\"4610\">I tutaj pojawiaj\u0105 si\u0119 kolejne wyzwania.<br data-start=\"4556\" data-end=\"4559\" \/>Po pierwsze \u2013 mo\u017ce si\u0119 okaza\u0107, \u017ce stoj\u0105 w opozycji.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4517\" data-end=\"4610\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4612\" data-end=\"4716\">Z jednej strony mamy <strong data-start=\"4633\" data-end=\"4654\">sprawczo\u015b\u0107 i si\u0142\u0119<\/strong>, z drugiej strony <strong data-start=\"4673\" data-end=\"4702\">delikatno\u015b\u0107 i zatrzymanie<\/strong>.<br data-start=\"4703\" data-end=\"4706\" \/>Co zrobi\u0107?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4612\" data-end=\"4716\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4718\" data-end=\"4894\"><strong>Pe\u0142nia sk\u0142ada si\u0119 z paradoks\u00f3w<\/strong>.<br data-start=\"4811\" data-end=\"4814\" \/>Mo\u017cliwo\u015b\u0107 obj\u0119cia tych paradoks\u00f3w to umiej\u0119tno\u015b\u0107, kt\u00f3ra pozwala nam \u017cy\u0107 pe\u0142niej. Umiej\u0119tno\u015b\u0107 wytrzymania napi\u0119cia pomi\u0119dzy dwoma wykluczaj\u0105cymi si\u0119 aspektami nas to sztuka sama w sobie. Z czasem prowadzi do wy\u0142onienia si\u0119 <strong data-start=\"5036\" data-end=\"5054\">trzeciej drogi<\/strong>.<br \/><br \/>Dobr\u0105 metafor\u0105 jest tutaj przyroda. Jest dla nas doskona\u0142ym przyk\u0142adem \u0142\u0105czenia r\u00f3\u017cnych jako\u015bci w pe\u0142en obraz: pot\u0119\u017cna majestatyczna g\u00f3ra, kt\u00f3ra mog\u0142aby reprezentowa\u0107 si\u0142\u0119 i delikatny wietrzyk. Dudni\u0105cy wodospad i spok\u00f3j panuj\u0105cy pod powierzchni\u0105 wody, tu\u017c obok. Jest pe\u0142na paradoksalnych po\u0142\u0105cze\u0144, kt\u00f3re jakim\u015b cudem ze sob\u0105 wsp\u00f3\u0142istniej\u0105. Podobnie jak w nas.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-64eaf55 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"64eaf55\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Jak \u017cy\u0107?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0c86fc2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"0c86fc2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p data-start=\"5242\" data-end=\"5302\">Jak w takim razie \u017cy\u0107?<br data-start=\"5264\" data-end=\"5267\" \/><strong data-start=\"5267\" data-end=\"5302\">Trzeba pod\u0105\u017ca\u0107 za nurtem rzeki.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5304\" data-end=\"5538\">Oznacza to, \u017ce je\u017celi czuj\u0119, \u017ce <strong data-start=\"5336\" data-end=\"5364\">nie mam miejsca dla mnie<\/strong> lub \u017ce <strong data-start=\"5372\" data-end=\"5393\">nie mog\u0119 by\u0107 sob\u0105<\/strong> \u2013 to zastanawiam si\u0119, <strong data-start=\"5416\" data-end=\"5438\">o jak\u0105 mnie chodzi<\/strong>?<br data-start=\"5439\" data-end=\"5442\" \/>Badam, co dok\u0142adnie domaga si\u0119 uwagi, jakiego do\u015bwiadczenia potrzebuj\u0119. Robi\u0119 na nie przestrze\u0144.<br \/><br \/><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5540\" data-end=\"5679\">By\u0107 mo\u017ce ju\u017c wtedy poczuj\u0119, \u017ce odzywa si\u0119 moje codzienne ja i m\u00f3wi: <em data-start=\"5608\" data-end=\"5632\">Hej, ja te\u017c tu jestem.<\/em><br data-start=\"5632\" data-end=\"5635\" \/>Wi\u0119c wtedy sprawdzam, co tutaj jest wa\u017cnego.<br \/><br \/><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5681\" data-end=\"5901\">Bo ja \u2013 to zar\u00f3wno <strong data-start=\"5700\" data-end=\"5723\">to, za czym t\u0119skni\u0119<\/strong>, jak i <strong data-start=\"5731\" data-end=\"5757\">to, kim jestem obecnie<\/strong>.<br data-start=\"5758\" data-end=\"5761\" \/>A sztuka polega na <strong data-start=\"5780\" data-end=\"5805\">p\u0142ynnym przechodzeniu<\/strong> z jednej strony na drug\u0105 \u2013 na pozostaniu w kontakcie z tym, co domaga si\u0119 uwagi. 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